People Fall In Love In Mysterious Ways

People fall in love in mysterious way
Maybe just the touch of a hand

Love,

Love is something that is never a boring thing to be talked about

Until lately, I've been listening to people's (around me) love story. Some heart-warming, and some heart-breaking. I, myself, never really understand love. So, when my friends told me their love stories, most of the time, I will listen and sometimes give my opinions (if they asked). Having no clue what exactly love is, I still have the audacity to give them my opinion. Dear friends, please excuse me if sometimes my opinion just sounded nonsense:)

When I say I don't have a clue what love is, I mean it. I have no experience relating love at all. I don't think I have any experience being loved by someone:p unless my parents of course. I believe that they are the only one that have the biggest and the greatest love for me. I love you too ma, yah:)))))))

Being a 20-ish year old girl I could not resist to seek for love. They say that everything will happen in the right time, in the right place, and with the right people. They say that the right person will come eventually and all you have to do is just to wait. I mean, if everyone is told to wait, how will they meet? Yeah of course we have work for it as well. I am really curious of how two people can fall in love and then build a relationship and the the relationship succeed, I mean how in the world it happens? If you have the same curiousness as me, maybe this can help answer that:)

How people fall in love?

I actually read some articles about this and just want to compiled it here so there you go

First of all, the reason people fall in love is because the human nature of pair bonding. So, from what I have read, human naturally seek for pair bonding because it is their nature.

Everyone must have heard a saying that goes by "You have to love yourself first before someone else loves you" at least once in their lives. And apparently, it's true. The saying is true. Therefore, the most important thing to do is to love yourself first. You must have the kind of love that you give within yourself. Because when you seek for love from others, you will project love from your within if you love yourself and thus you will not come across as 'needy' person. You surely don't want to come across as needy, do you?

That was the most important thing to fall in love. There are still more left. Readiness also contributes, you will only find love when you are ready. Because the more you want to be in a relationship when, in fact, you are not ready for it yet, then the more self-esteem you will have. Similarity also has role when it comes to falling in love. They said that we will most likely fall in love with someone that share common traits, characteristics to us. Moreover, familiarity also could lead us to fall in love. The more familiar you are with the the higher chance you can fall in love with them. An then the list goes on and on and on. It's one-never-ending list.


So, id you want to be love, yoi first have to love your own self first. SELF LOVE IS THE KEY EVERYONE!!!

How to Not Care?

Being an over-thinker is really hard. Like you will think every-single-thing deeper than it actually is. Like if someone stare at you, you would think that they hate you, they judge you, basically all negativity will cross your mind. In fact, they are just coincidentally staring you or they just stare at you without any reasons.

 I am one of that person. I would say I am an over-thinker. I overthink so much. I think everything or every scenario that can happen whenever I will do something. Actually it's very exhausting. It drains my soul seriously. I really aspire to be someone who live their lives freely without think much. Overthinking builds a wall in my mind that make me feel like I am trapped. I can't express myself freely because even before I do something I will think every consequence, every possibility, every judgment, and other everies that I will faced. Isn't it sounds so tiring?

Being an over-thinker my self, I looked up the internet on how to not care, thus below are the ways I found from various sources. I compiled it here because I don't want to keep good things along. Good things are meant to be shared, aren't they?

5 Ways to Not Care (I actually still implementing these 5 ways so I hope it works):))))))

1. Hypnotized Yourself

No... it's not literally hypnotized yourself where you see and follow the direction of a watch and then sleep. No it's not it. What I mean is you should hypnotized yourself to think that people judgement is not everything. How? of course by telling yourself that"people judgement is nothing" over and over again to yourself. If you tell yourself over and over again your mind will eventually believe it and voila, you won't think much again. It sounds cliche I know but, yeah, It won't hurt to try.

2. Just Do It

I know it's a slogan of famous sneakers brand but seriously just do it. Don't think too much about doing something. Thinking too much will get you nowhere. Just do it, it's not your duty to worry about what will happen if you do something for the sake of love. Let future unfold itself. For now, just do it. Win the battle with you fear. Crush your fear. As long as what you do is right, don't be scared and don't think much. It sounds so simple I know I know. but try first and you will know.

3. Believe that You are Good Enough

This is very important. In order to not care about, basically, everything, you have to believe that you are good, you are worth, you deserve all the good things in this world, you are good enough. Don't let them make you think otherwise. Self-worth is really important. Once this stoned in your mind, no matter what people say about you, no matter judgment you get, you will always know that you are good enough, that you are capable, and that you are worth.

4. Just Let Them

Let the judge you. Literally, just let them. People like to judge, don't they? So let them. Let them judge you, let them reject you. Why? because their judgment is basically nothing. It has no impact in your life. Try this and you will realize that people's judgment has no meaning in your life. You will still get up of bed, eat, go to school, basically you still do every routines you do, nothing change. Rather than make them stop, it's better to not give a fudge.

5. Things Can Go Wrong

Last, but not least. Always keep in mind that things can go wrong whenever, wherever, to whoever. Don't blame yourself too much when things go wrong, it's not fully your mistake (or it's not your mistake at all). Don't be so hard on yourself. It's not your mistake, it's just that life is not on your side sometimes.

There you go 5 ways to not care, to not give a damn, to not give a fudge, or whatever you call it:)))))
I know everything is easier said that done. I am no better that you. I'm still struggling to not care also.

I know those are some cliche tips everyone knows. But it's just some tips, what matter the most is you. You are the one that can change your self. Once you are ready to change, the tips will work, no matter what tips it is.

Book Review: A Gift to Remember by Melissa Hill

“With some stories, you really can't rush things. And it's often best just to sit back and enjoy the journey for what it is.” 

Title: A Gift to Remember

Author: Melissa Hill

Publisher: Simon & Schuster

Year: 2013

*the pic is just visualization

Darcy Archer is a bookworm. Her unstoppable love for books makes her resigned from her job in a fashion magazine and decided to work in a small book store. her neverending love for book is passed down from her parent. Unfortunately, her parents died in an accident when she was 12 leaving her with her only aunt.

Darcy Archer now is the manager of a small bookstore, Chaucer's, in Manhattan. She lived with her aunt until she graduated from high school. Her aunt is her only family. Katherine, her aunt, has always been wishing her the very best in life. She helped her got into the fashion magazine, but Darcy chose to quit.

"When work is soulless, life stifles and dies" is a quote from Albert Camus which Darcy gives as reason whenever her aunt could not make sense of her decision. Quitting from the magazine, she managed to got a manager position in Chaucer's bookstore. She likes being with book. That's all there is.

Being someone who loves book more than anyone in this world, Darcy has always has her own scenario relating to meet her s/o. She refuses to settle for anything less than being swept off her feet by the perfect man. Perhaps that is the reason why she has no man until now.

One day when cycling to work she could not control her bike (because of the snow) and accidentally hit a man walking with his dog unconscious. The ambulance came and took the man, who later found to be Harris, to the nearest hospital. His dog left behind with a box that seems to be a gift Harris brought for someone. Darcy pities the dog and tries to give the dog to Harris again but the hospital didn't allow it.

And Harris is amnesia. He could not remember everything.

Darcy feels that she is responsible for everything that happens to Harris and so she wants to make up for it. She tells Harris that she will help him bring back his memories again. So she tries to look every information regarding Harris and start to dive into the mysterious man's life. Wile diving into it, she finds herself fall in love with him.

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My thought on this book is that it is beautifully written. I believe that every girl who is a bookworm will have their own fantasy regarding how will they meet their s/o. And I believe books they read have a big of influence.

The book succeeded in making almost every event happens in the book relatable. I can totally relate to everything Darcy wish to happen in her life in the book.

Overall it's a good book for those who likes to fantasize such romantic situation that will probably never happen in your life. In other words, this book is really suitable for daydreamers. I will give 8 out of 10 for this book.

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Ultrabook Generasi Baru Ideal untuk Kaum Milenial

JAKARTA - Asus memperkenalkan ultrabook terbarunya dengan fitur flip yang dapat bertransformasi ke dalam empat bentuk. Dinamakan dengan Asus ZenBook Flip UX461, ultrabook premium ini membawa banyak fitur-fitur terbaik dari lini ZenBook sebelumnya, salah satunya adalah engsel ekslusif ergolift hinge yang dapat diputar hinga 360° serta desainnya stylish dan trendy.

Dengan bentang layar 14 inci, Asus membekalinya dengan sistem operasi Microsoft Windows 10 Home dengan resolusi layar FHD 1920x1080. “ZenBook Flip UX461 adalah perangkat yang diperuntukan bagi para profesional muda yang punya mobilitas dalam menjalankan aktivitas bisnisnya. Produk ini juga sangat pas bersanding dengan generasi millenials yang memiliki concern dengan dunia fotografi, influencer, konten kreator, hingga business traveler,” ucap Galip Fu, Country Marketing Manager Asus Indonesia, Selasa (20/3/2018).

Alasan yang membuat produk yang satu ini cocok dengan segmen tersebut, Galip menambahkan, adalah karena berkat bobotnya yang ringan hanya 1,4Kg serta ketebalan 1,3 centimeter. Selain itu, daya tahan baterainya yang mencapai 12 jam membuat perangkat ini sangat ideal untuk digunakan dalam berbagai situasi.

“ZenBook Flip UX461 mewarisi seluruh DNA yang milik ZenBook klasik, namun kali ini dibuat lebih halus sehingga semakin memberikan kesan solid,” ujar Galip.

Spesifikasi notebook ini ditopang oleh RAM LPDDR3 performa tinggi sebesar 16GB 2133MHz serta penggunaan PCIe SSD M.2 sebesar 512GB. Untuk konektivitas, port USB 3.0 Type-A dan sebuah port USB 3.1 Type-C disediakan untuk menghubungkan perangkat eksternal masa kini.

Tak hanya itu, demi menunjang produktivitas bekerja, keyboard pada Zenbook UX461memiliki fitur backlight. Fitur ini sangat bermanfaat bagi pengguna yang kerap bekerja hingga malam hari atau saat lampu ruangan sudah dimatikan.

Namun sayangnya dalam hal ini Asus masih belum mengumumkan berapa banderol dari ZenBook Flip UX461.

Translated by google translate

Ultrabook Ideal New Generation for the Millenials

JAKARTA - Asus introduced its newest ultrabook with flip feature that can be transformed into four forms. Named with the Asus ZenBook Flip UX461, this premium ultrabook brings many of the best features of the previous ZenBook line, one of which is the exclusive hinge ergolift hinge that can be rotated 360° and its stylish and trendy design.

With 14-inch landscape display, Asus membekalinya with Microsoft operating system Windows 10 Home with 1920x1080 FHD screen resolution. "ZenBook Flip UX461 is a device that is intended for young professionals who have mobility in running their business activities. This product is also very fitting along with millennials who have concerns with the world of photography, influencers, creator content, to business travelers," said Galip Fu, Country Marketing Manager of Asus Indonesia, Tuesday (20/3/2018).

The reason that makes this one product match with the segment, Galip added, is because thanks to the light weight of only 1.4Kg and 1.3 centimeters thickness. In addition, battery endurance reaching 12 hours makes this device is ideal for use in various situations. "ZenBook Flip UX461 inherits all of the DNA that belongs to the classic ZenBook, but this time it's made softer it gives the impression of solidity," Galip said.

This notebook specification is supported by high performance LPDDR3 RAM of 16GB 2133MHz and the use of PCIe SSD M.2 of 512GB. For connectivity, a USB 3.0 Type-A port and a USB 3.1 Type-C port are provided to connect today's external devices.

Not only that, in order to support productivity work, the keyboard on Zenbook UX461 has a backlight feature. This feature is very useful for users who often work until the night or when the room lights have been turned off.

But unfortunately in this case Asus still has not announced how much the tag of ZenBook Flip UX461.

Translated manually by Rahmaluttifah

The New Generation of Ultrabook is Ideal for the Millenials

JAKARTA - Asus introduced its newest ultrabook with flip feature capable of transformating into four shapes. Named Asus Zenbook Flip UX461, this premium ultrabook brings many best features from the previous line of Zenbook, one of which is the exclusive hinge ergolift hinge that can be rotated 360 ° and also its stylish and trendy design.

With 14 inch display, Asus equipped it with Microsoft Windows 10 Home operation system and FHD 1920x1080 screen resolution. “Zenbook Flip UX461 is a device for those young professionals having the mobility to run their businesses. This product also is perfectly fitted millenials who have particular concern toward photography, influencer, content creator, and business traveller,” said Galip Fu, Country Marketing Manager of Asus Indonesia , Tuesday (20/3/2018).

The reason behind it is, Galip added, because of the light weight of the device. It only weighted 1,4 kg with 1,3 centimetre thick. Besides, the capability of the battery that can stay up to 12 hours makes the device ideal to be used in any situation. “Zenbook Flip UX461 has all DNA from the classic Zenbook, but this time it is made softer so it gives more solid impression,” said Galip.

This notebook is supported by high performance LPDDR3 RAM of 16GB 2133MHz and the use of PCIe SSD M.2 of 512GB.  For the connectivity, USB 3.0 port Type-A and a USB 3.1 port Type-C are available to connect external device.

In addition, in order to support productivity, Zenbook UX461 keyboard has backlight feature. This feature is very useful to the user working until the night or when the lights turned off.

Unfortunately, Asus have not yet announced how much this ZenBook Flip UX461 costs.

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